wut should i do cuz am really in luv n confused
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
okay..i liked this guy since i was 15..n now am 18...
he's my bestfriend's brother..i see him almost everyday
he's every thing i ever wanted,n we're so much alike,thats y i blv that he's the one for me....but the problem is,he doesnt know that i love him...i'v been holdin it back for 3 years,but its killin me cuz i found out that he got a girlfriend..but am not sure if he really loves her....i dont talk to him more than 20 mins. n thats it...sometimes i catch him stairin at me...n sometimes he askes Q's about stuff that he can ask anyone about...but he choses me ;)
late at night i be in my house he calls me to call my bestfriend to open the door 4 him..now dats weird!!
i wrote hima really long letter about how i feel..but i didnt have the courge to send it...n i wrote a poem about him...my bestfriend told me to send the poem cuz she said that the hardest guy would fall for me after readin the poem..wut should i do cuz am really in luv n confused n how do i know if he likes me back??
sorry for makin this long...but i hope u take a good look at n ansewr me plz...thnx alot :)
I would first find out if this is a steady girlfriend. If it is, then you're sunk in the water. You'll have to wait until he breaks up with her. You wouldn't want to be the cause of their breakup. So you'll just have to wait in the wings while he's with her.
When he's single, then yes send him the poem and see where things go from there. I think it would be very romantic and he couldn't resist falling for it, at least for a night. And that's all that you need to get things started.
Life is always full of these really horrible times where you're so uncertain and uncomfortable and just wanting everything to work out. Sometimes they do, sometimes they don't. All you can do is get back in the game and start swinging again.
-- from Jenn
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