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does he really like me or is he using me



Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
i met this boy at the fair he is 17 years old and im 14 years old.. well a bunch of people told me he was a player and stuff like that and i was like what ever im not going to believe that. well he asked me to walk around with him and i was like ok and he asked me some questions about myself so he could get to know me. well after 2 hours i was already liking him a lot... then he asked me what i liked about him and i told him his personaillity,looks, how he talks, and stuff like that well i was like i know you probably dont like me. he stoped me and turned me around and looked at me right in the eyes and said i like your personaillity and your looks and the way you talk, and you are everything i want in a girl. well i gave him my number and he called that night but the next night he kinda of didnt act like he did the night before he was all mad and stuff like that because he was about to get into a fight. but after that he called me but i dont know if he really likes me or what i mean how if he is just using me for someone to go with or something. a lot of people ask me if we go out and im like no we dont and they go with i think yall should but this girl got in my face and she was like are you his girl and i said no i dont go with him me and him was just talking and she was like well im giving you the 411 now he is a big player. does he really like me or is he using me




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First off, 17 to 14 is a pretty big jump for a relationship. You and he are looking for wildly different things in a relationship. You'll be looking for love and romance and friendship and compatibility, and he'll be looking for sex. So no, I don't think going out with him would be a good idea.

For the fact that he can't act right two nights in a row says something too. He can't say after talking with you for two hours that you are exactly what he's looking for. So he's trying to work some game on you.

Believe your friends. They know him better than you do. And find someone who will be good to you and treat you right. You deserve it.

Good luck!
Jenn


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