the bad news is that he has a girfriend

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
there is this boy that i like and he says that he dosen't like me and he siad that if he saw me that he would walk away. but when i am hanging with my friends at times i will see him looking out his window at me or just stare at me. the bad news is that he has a girfriend. my friends say that he likes me but is just saying that stuff to make me think that he dosen't like me. how do i knew if it true that he likes me or not. Advice
It's always difficult to figure out what guys want or don't want. It can be really frustrating trying to guess what's on their mind. If you're brazen enough, you can go up to him and say, "you've been looking at me an awful lot. What's up with that?" and see what he says. But if you're like most people, you really wish they would come up to you and blurt out their feelings instead. But it probably won't happen.

Since he has a girlfriend, I suggest you wait it out until they break up. Then go after him if it's what you want to do. But while he's committed to someone else, the best thing is to leave him alone.

All the best,


-- from Jenn
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