The Freshman-Senior Thing
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I am a Freshman in high school and this senior guy wants to go out with me do you think it's ok or is there to much of a age difference?
I've never really make-out with a guy before and I don't really know how, can you please help me learn to be a good kisser?
Lots of freshmen go out with seniors. It all has to do with the maturity of the freshman and the patience of the senior. The senior canNOT push the freshman into *anything*. The freshman has to feel *completely* comfortable at all times and choose the pace. That is the most important thing. If the senior respects the freshman, it will work. If the senior starts to push the freshman even a small bit, it will cause huge friction and the relationship will fall apart.
You don't just leap into making out. It's a series of small steps - and again it should never, never be pressure. It should be you actively feeling comfortable with your current contact level and actively being interested in moving along to trying something new. I have some tips here -
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com