My best friend is gorgeous and all the guys go for her

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
My best friend is gorgous and all the guys go for her. Which always leaves me out, it brings my self esteem down pretty low and makes me feel as if I cant get anyone for myself. And whenever I do find someone Im affraid they'll see her and drop me. What do I do? Advice
The first thing you should do is take an inventory of your good points and what you have to offer to someone. You may also be being too hard on yourself. Take a good look at who you are and what you got. I'm sure there is a lot there.

You should also continue dating. Sure, guys will find her attractive and maybe some will hit on her. Those are the guys you can let go. Any guy that really likes you will respect your relationship.

The only other alternative is a lousy one and won't solve any of your self-esteem issues. That alternative is to stop hanging with her. If she's your best friend, keep her friendship. She will also repsect your guys, too.

Best wishes,

-- from Marc
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