he doesnt know if they are now classified as being bf and gf
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
My boyfriend was talking to another guy, who needs some advice. I told them I'd try and find an answer, but searching the net isnt an easy thing for me to do. Here is the situation as ive been told
My boyfriends friend has been talking to this girl for a long time, but he has never asked her to be his girlfriend, so he doesnt know if they are now classified as being bf and gf...but..what he wants to know is what kind of questions can he ask her to find out if they are bf and gf or not? thanks
Well, the only way he's going to know if they're official is if he asks her if they're official. Part of any relationship is the whole trust and honest issue. He should be able to be open and honest with her about everything, one of which is the current state of their relationship. He can coach it as, "Some of my guys are saying that we're not really going out. What should I say to them?" But really, he should be able to ask her directly what is going on between them.
-- from Jenn
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