He's made life actually worth living for. But theres this other guyVisitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Look to be honest I don't really know how these things work. But i have this problem and i really need some advice. Please don't ignore this I beg of u. Here's the problem. Im dating this guy right, he's great, he's sweet, he adores me, he has flaws
You will always have feelings for 'Bob' even if you date him and have a horrible breakup. That's just how crushes work. And no, you're not horrible for thinking of Bob while you're dating your current guy. That's life, it's normal.
You need to recognize that this crush with Bob has built up an expectation that he and you simply can't meet. Life will never be as wonderful as the fantasies are, so let them remain fantasies. Don't give up the bird in hand for the one in the bush.
You'll always curse yourself if you give up your good relationship to go for a fling with Bob. It's better to spend your life with "what if..." instead of "if I'd only stayed..."
I wish you the best.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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