she says im "good looking" but "more goes into it"
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
i hope this isn't too cliche...but i grew up with a girl and then we went out for a good 2 years, we went through alot of problems, im 19 she is 16 (we started dating at 17 and 14)we grew up in the neighborhood and what not so we always had a more exclusive connection then the other kids in the area....we went through alot with our parents not wanting us together..to having to sneak around to see each other...to working it out and getting to a point where our families accepted our relationship and learned to get along with us...it got to a point where she was all over me 24/7 sex became a routine, and it was very good as we were EXTREMLY attracted to one another (i still am to her, not sure of how she feels, says im "good looking" but "more goes into it") and i felt she would never leave me (we both lost our virginity to one another, and i fell for the old myth that she'd always be in love with me) and she was, so i took it for granted n started to ignore her, for 2 years i was the guy who got her cards and flowers on days that meant absolutly nothing, at least 3 times a week, now honestly i didnt' even see her in person for a good 2 months. eventually we made the decision to "see each other" but that never worked out, and for months i thought iw as over her, well turns out im not, and when i went to go back she claims she has "no feelings for me" when i see her in person she is giggly and some of her body language says she still has attraction to me, she says she'll hang out whenever and we are still going to be freinds, she lives literally 2 doors down from me so its impossible to not see her, and she seems to care what i think and care to talk to me alot, also to hang out. i am good with words and when i tell her how i feel about her and reflect on the past we both wind up sobbing. I asked her if she ever thought we could grow again and if she could like me she said she doesnt' know b/c she cant' tell the future, but "rite now no" "theres a possiblity tho who knows" i feel really strongly for her, but my question is...is she telling the whole truth? is she still hurt? is there a chance? i already know i should back off a bit and see others as well, but i want to know if there is this chance and if she maybe does still feel for me like i do her....
Move on with your life. Treat her like a friend. If she's bluffing, you'll soon find out. If she isn't, you'll have a head start at finding someone else.
-- from Marc
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com