i dont have a girlfriend or wife, does it matter much to have one?

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I dont really have many friends. I dont go out much either, i used to when i was at school with friends.

The friends i have dont really think much of me.I am kinda knowen as a NERD.

Recently, well for the past 3 years, ive gotten to know new friends and new people. And they always tell me why i dont have a girlfriend, my only answer is i cant get one right. They always tell me to go up to one, but whats the point when they dont themseleves.

I know you are going to desagree with me, BUT, girls like guys who are good looking, i know your gonna say they all dont, but the girls i like, go for hansom guys or cool guys.

I aint been out with a girl yet. I cant get one. Well its not my opionion, is a fact of true honesty.

Is it bad when i grow up, to be alone, are a lot of people who arent so good looking, who live alone or what. I mean what happenes if i am alone right and i dont have a girlfriend or wife, does it matter much to have one?

Honestly i rather not get rejected.

RomanceClass.com Advice
If you are happy despite not having a girl, then no it doesn't matter that you don't have one. A relationship can certainly bring you happiness, but if you're happy already, don't worry about it.

Now, you have a thing where you only go after beautiful girls, and you downgrade yourself for not being the jock-handsome-guy. But why not go after girls who are nice and sweet and wonderful? Aren't you holding up a double-standard, where you're judging girls by how they look, right when you complain about how the beautiful girls reject you for your looks?

I suggest you think on it a while.

-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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