feeling rebound symptoms
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I really like this girl, but she has recntly broken up with her boyfriend and feeling relief because he cheated on her but feeling rebound symptoms. We both go to the same club on a Saturday night aswell and as you can imaging, drink is involved. We also talk on a chatting system on the computer and she has explained that she does 'like' me, but I fear/doubt that she might see me in another light when under the influence of some drink. We get on well on the chatline thing, but I want to tel how I feel about her, but i'm scared of what she might say. What should I do on a meeting with her face to face under these conditions?
She has already told you that she doesn't "like" you. I don't think she could be much more clear.
You have two choices, remain friends or cut her out of your life. Both are painful, but in order to help you move on with your life you have to choose. If you remain friends with her, you can at least stay close and something might develop. At the very least, if she is rebounding, you can save her heartache by letting her know your concerns.
-- from Marc
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com