now i only see and speak to him once maybe two times a week.

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me and my boyfriend has been going out for 4 months. he used to call and come over all the time. now i only see and speak to him once maybe two times a week. but when he see me he always ask why i don't call him when that one time out of a week is me calling him. but he always tell me he love me and want to marry me every time we speak or are together. i get the feeling it's some one else or he just don't like me as much anymore. should i think this or not? Advice
What you need to do is sit down with him and settle where the relationship is going. Any relationship is based on honesty and trust, so you should be able to get a straight answer out of him. You also need to believe in him when he says things, and saying he wants to marry you is pretty heavy. If he's saying that, then no there's no other woman and yes he does like you.

Any relationship goes through ups and downs, times when emotions run hot and times when things ease off and float along. It sounds like this is a floating time you're in right now. So jazz it up a bit by taking him to romantic dinners or to 6 Flags or something exciting like this. If he's not calling you, then by all means call him.

I wish you the best!

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