I want to lose my virginity...

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
HI..I AM ONLY 14,BUT I WANT TO LOSE MY VIRGINITY.I DONT KNO IF I WONT TO JUST YET..BUT I WOULD LIKE TO SOON..I WONT TO SEE HOW IT FEELS...I DONT THINK I AM READY..BUT WHEN I AM READY I WONT TO KNOW AND UNDERSTAND EVERYTHING ABOUT IT..SO THE QUESTION IS,WILLIT HURT THE FIRST TIME..I KNOW IT WILL HURT A LITTLE BIT..BUT I WOULD LIKE IT IF SOMEONE COULD EMAIL ME OR SOMETHING AND TELL ME ABOUT IT..THANK YOU

RomanceClass.com Advice

It's natural for you to want to know more about sex and what it's like. But wanting to try it out just out of curiosity is like getting married just to know what it's like. It's a pretty heavy thing to do and not something to do just on the spur of the moment. Sex should happen with someone you love and respect and who you would consider as a potential father to your child. Pregnancy is always a possibility any time you have sex, and you need to be prepared for that to happen. Are you able at 14 to handle having a child? If not, then you shouldn't be having sex.

Here's a good site with questions and answers about sex:
http://www.avert.org/sfeel1.htm

-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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