How to act when she meets her ex

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Please help :(. I broke up with my boyfriend and I can't over him. I begged him not too and made a really big drama queen of myself and mess out of tears on my face. He kept on saying , "We're over. There is nothing we can do to bring our relationship back." And then he said he was depressed because of me... Ok I do admit that I wasnt trusting him, but it was mainly because he kept on hanging around other girls and I felt liek he was ignoring me. I begged him to give it antoher chance but he just ignored me and said no. He said we could "talk" next Wednesday but that I shouldn't cal him or talk to him until then.
I feel so terrible for bitching at him. I sort of thought he would break up with me if I kept on doing that but at the time I was very frustated at sort of mad at him.
I really wish he could just give me another chance. He said he loves me.. but how can I just cope without him? We.. had a very "sentimental relationship" and I am feeling jealous of the thought of seeing him with toher girls. He knows all my friends and stuff and has dated some of them before so its not liek i can forget him easily

Argh please help! What should I say to him when we meet? I feel liek I'm gonig to freeze and shrivel up when I see him again.

Thankx for your help if you can. Advice
Tell him calmly that you still love him and that you hope he has some little bit of love for you still in his heart. He will probably say yes. Promise him you won't be so bitchy anymore. Keep having good conversations with him as good communitcations is one of the keys to a good relationship. Trust is another part, so work on your trusting him.

Good luck,

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