I still feel a great deal of chemistry between us
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I am a 18 year male who has for the last few months been very confused. My best friend is also 18 and we dated for a few months (iv'e never been good on dating) although we broke up we never lost a certain thing we had. We are currently great friends, she's the best friend I've ever had. We share things with eachother that we've never told anyone else, and I still feel a great deal of chemistry between us, and although I am only 18 I think I truly love her. I need some advice on what to do, should I confront her with this, or do it subtly, or what, or jsut kinda keep it in. I don't want to ruin what we have now. Espicially since we are planning to go to college together just so we won't lose what we have.
I would recommend that you bring it up to her that you still like her. Mention it casually and see how she reacts. Say that you had a dream that you two were back together, what a silly idea, isn't it? and see where she goes with it. Since you are good friends, being open and honest with your feelings shouldn't break that down.
I think that it's great that you are going to the same college together. That speaks volumes for how close the two of you are. So take the step and see if it can be closer still.
-- from Jenn
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