I was in a 3year relationship and within these years, the feeling of love for my partner was unstable.
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I was in a 3year relationship and within these years, the feeling of love for my partner was unstable. I wanted to know, is love a feeling inside? If at times you do not feel this love feeling (like chemistry/spark) does this mean that it is not true love? My feelings were never stable, sometimes i felt i loved him to death other times the feeling was just not there? We are no longer together but I want to move on but am still confused is love itself a feeling which is always stable?
Thank you for your help
Look at it this way, you must love your parents and/or siblings, but you probably don't think of it until an emergency or a special occasion. We tend to get used to people in our lives and when all is steady, things just fade into the background. It's at intense times that feelings move to the foreground.
So, to answer your question, it sounds like your feelings are normal.
-- from Marc
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com