before i went out with her i went out with her younger sister

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ok look my problem is ok i went out with this girl twice right well before i went out with her i went out with her younger sister and the older sister thats the one i am going out with now and eveytime i am with the younger one cuase the younger one still likes me i kno she does well everytime i am talking to the younger one and the older one comes well the one i am going out with i back off tothe younger one cuase i dont want her to think that nothing is up well when i did that the next day i when i talk to my girlfriend the big one she told me thats not right when you see me coming you just leave her alone that made me think that something was up with you guys and i want her to think that nothing is so i dont no what to do in order to make her think that i have nothing for her little sister i allready told her like a milion time but i no she still thinks i do so what should i do should i just avoid the little sister like dont talk to her at all or what help me please..

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What you need to do is to treat her younger sister as a friend and don't treat her any different from any of your other friends. Reassure the older sister that you are only with her, and things should be ok. And in the future, don't play with relatives, it only leads to these sorts of issues.

Good luck!

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