me and my husband fight all the time over me being jealous
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Person
me and my husband fight all the time over me being jelouse over other women. i dont want him to look,talkor be friends with other women. we have been married almost 9 years. i love him and dont want to loose him. but he says he is tired of it. i want to change. i dont mean to be like this it just happens, i think just becouse he talks to a girl that he wants her.... i try talking to him about how i feel he gets mad and says thing that just hurts me more..... he says he aint happy no more.........please help
Jealousy comes from insecurity and a lack of trust. It's not uncommon at all, but it universally wrecks relationships. As you're finding out.
You can read about how to handle jealousy on our site:
What you need to do is learn to trust that your husband will remain with you no matter what. You need to believe that no 22 yr old floozie will grab his heart. It doesn't matter if she grabs his eyes, he's with -you- not her. And you need to have the faith that this is true. And when you do, you will no longer be plagued by doubt but instead will be filled with love.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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