I'm really lost in end love and i don't know what to do.
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Hi my question is i have been going out with this boy name Ellis off and on for 3 years. I really do care for him alot, and i'm still in love with him. I want him back, but he got a girlfriend who i think he really likes because he's with her all the time. A couple weeks ago i really wanted him to come over and he did.We had a good time, and it made me want him more. But Ellis always said that if we don't go back out then we will still be close friends. I recently got myself into a relationship, and i end up hurting the boy alot because i wasn't feeling him and i was stuck on Ellis. It seems like i can't do anything, because he's affecting my life on everything i do. I really want to let him know how i feel about him, but i don't want to feel stupuid because he might not feel the same why. I'm really lost in end love and i don't know what to do. And plus a couple of weeks ago i found out that i was pagant by him, and he was still seeing the girl he was with so i got a abortion without him knowing because i didn't want to mess up what he got. But please help me, and tell me what should i do next.
You deserve someone who will be with you 100% and not someone who is on-again, off-again the way this guy is. You might want one conversation with him to state where you stand and ask him if he thinks there's any chance that he feels the same. But if he again says no, then it's time for you to find someone new and break this thought-pattern where he's the only one in your life. You deserve better than a halftime relationship.
I wish you the best.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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