I love this girl SOOO much.
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Ok heres the rundown. I love this girl SOOO much. I have felt this way about her since we first met through highschool about a year ago. We talk farely frequently at school and on instant messenger, but we arent exactly great friends, we just chit chat. She knows that i "like" her through way of my big mouthed friends but she doesnt really know how i feel. Heres the problem, she recently hooked up with some guy (yes yes i did nothing for a year), and also she is WAY out of my league, to talk to her is a miracle in its self. I have no clue what to do. Should i tell her how i feel even though it would be kind of weird since she has a boyfriend or should i just wait out this boyfriend (which might take years for all i know), but even if i did tell her how i felt before now, she would have probably just made up an excuse to spare my feelings(because she's wonderful like that ^_^ ). Please help me, i dont think i can stand the sleepless nights thinking about her and wishing i was with her much longer, i hate being some miserable.
Unfortunately, she's involved with someone else now, and it's never a good idea to profess your love to someone who's taken. It will only end up hurting everyone, particularly you. Would you want her to be so fickle that she dumps her guy just because you say you like her? Would you want her to do that to you?
You will always like her, but you'll need to tuck her in the back of your mind and find yourself someone new to take your mind off of her. Develop other interests and activities to keep yourself busy, and sooner or later you'll realize that you haven't thought of her for a day or so. Then you'll be all better.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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