we had sex and he is very, very small

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Hi, I am the one that posted about the shy guy and us just being friends and me wanting more. Well, the good news is that we are more than friends now. My question today is....well, we had sex and he is very, very small. I mean like maybe 4 inches and it has no girth either. How gentle is was and everything I was able to be pleased completely. Everytime we make love though, in a very nice way he will ask if he inside me yet, which tells me he can't feel me??? Does that mean I am too big for him and does that mean it is not good for him. Please someone let me know. The kicker is he was a virgin. I want him to be pleased. Can someone tell me what a guy feels and if it is good for him too. Just want to make sure it is pleasing for him as well. Thanks again all....

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I am so happy to hear that things worked out! Congratulations!

And now for your question.... I've had a lot more experience than I care to admit. And I've had guys of many sizes ask that same question, and it's because they could easily be rubbing against the outside labia and not realize it. Some guys are more sensitive and aware about what they're feeling, and some guys can only sense, "this is skin." but not -what- skin it is. So I wouldn't take it that he's not getting pleased, it just means he's learning what it all feels like. You are, after all, his first real experience and he's new to it.

I can also say that you are not too big for him. The vagina is made to fit any and all sizes. Think of how it feels to insert a tampon, which is about four inches and not that wide around. Or, insert a finger and feel how your vagina fits snugly around it. You're fine. He will learn techniques that work best for his pleasure and yours, it'll just take some experimentation, which will be a lot of fun for both of you.


-- from Jenn
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