There is a girl at my work that I find very attractive
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Hi. There is a girl at my work that I find very attractive - both in personality and in looks. She works in a different department (tho quite nearby), so I see her most days yet I have only had a few short convos with her, however I cannot help but be attracted by her kind, gentle manner, plus she is *SO* pretty!
I checked with a trusted colleague to make sure she is single, and I got an enthusiatic 'yes', so today I went for it and asked her out for a drink.
I know all about the whole acting cool thing, and approaching her in a confident and sincere way - these things I did. And she said yes! However, despite my confident demeanour, I wasn't ready for the 'yes', and didn't suggest a time and place, although we did chat about stuff on the way back to our offices. We are both very busy at work and as such did not get chance to speak again today - it would have been difficult with all our colleagues about.
I'm really not used to this kind of situation, and yet I didn't feel nervous or anything, and I don't want to take this too seriously since this is only the preliminary bit!
My question is this: What do I say when I return to work after the weekend? I hope I haven't put her off by not having a definite plan when she agreed to go out. I have to be able to remind her about the 'date' without seeming pushy...
Many thanks and good luck to all.
She said YES so she's waiting on you to suggest something!
So do it!
Monday morning, stop by her desk and say, "hey, there's this new club opening on 54th street. How about we go there tonight?" And she'll say YES.
Just go for it!
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com