He Cares for Me?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
IM almost 16. And Honestly haven't had a million b/f's. But I've had them. So im lost. Theres a guy. I really like. but he doesnt seem like her cares about me. Sure sometimes he sais he does. and he even said "I Love You" all by him self on the phone. We've only been out once will twice but I say one.
Any ways. He has said it online before. But I like when he does it so I can hear him. But he doesnt care for it much. But when ever I try talking to him he gets mad at me cause I dont tell him everything. But Im not one to tell people everything. He asks what I said When i whisper things to my self. But any ways. He's living well. He seems like a very happy guy. He can have fun. I cant do that. I just dont feel right. We played those things in the malls and stuff the "video games" well i felt wierd about that.. I dont know. But I like him i know that. I know Not one question but i need help!
Thanx for your time. Bye
Jeez, most people dream about the moment when their boyfriend says "I love you" and here yours does and you don't know if he likes you or not :)
You may not be one to tell people everything, but this is your *boyfriend*. He is perhaps the ONE person you really have to talk with, to share how you feel. That's what keeps a relationship going. So even though it's hard, make this your New Year's Resolution. You will talk with him, tell him how you feel, share your thoughts. That's what gets you through the good and bad times - is being honest with each other. Think of this as practice in case any tough times come. You better get over the fears now!
As far as having fun, let loose! Life is too short to not have fun, to get hung up on what people will think or whatever. It's time to find something in your life that you enjoy that is safe and healthy, and let yourself enjoy it!
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com