He's Acting Strangely
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Okay well have been together for three weeks now, but yesterday he started acting weird. He will call me and not say basically ne thing. I will ask him if he wants to go out somewhere, then he will say "i don't know." Then i ask him if something if wrong then he will say that nothing is wrong. I don't know what to do i don't want him to lose interest in me. I don't want to lose him. What could be going on with him, and what can i do. Why would he change from one day to another. PLease help... Thanks
There could be 80 million reasons why he's acting oddly. I could guess at 79 million of them and still be wrong. Only one person knows how he feels - and that's him. If he's refusing to talk to you about it, it's time to work on that. Because the only thing that keeps 2 people together is lots of talking.
Don't do it over the phone, lots of people have trouble talking about things on the phone. Get to him in person, sit down somewhere quiet, and say that you want to make the relationship even better. Don't say "what's WRONG". That's a negative attack on things, he's worried about hurting you or losing you. Do it the positive way. "What can we do to make things BETTER" - now it is you and he as a team confronting a problem. That might be something he could help out with.
-- from Jenn
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