He has cheated but never admitted up to it.
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have been off and on with my man for over eight years. He has cheated but never admitted up to it. So now I am having worries again. But I don't know how to approce it. If he is then I want proof to show that he can't get away with it. PLEASE HELP!!!!!
There are plenty of traditional ways to find if someone is cheating. Check their phone logs, look for receipts or strange credit card purchases. Follow them when they go out for lunch. Or just flat out accuse him and see what he says. Honesty is the core of any relationship, and if you can't trust him to be honest with you, then what are you doing with him in the first place?
You deserve someone who will honor the commitment to you. Any less and you're not getting the respect that is owed you in a relationship. Don't settle for a guy who would do this to you. It may be hard to start over with someone new, but you will feel so much better about yourself and the relationship than you do with this guy.
I wish you the best.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com