he told me that he cannot trust me for nothing,
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 11 months and i am madly in love with him and yeah we have our ups and downs but recently he told me that he cannot trust me for nothing, he cant even trust me with his homie in the room with me,and that he doesnt think that we should be together. I seriously dont kno what triggerd him all i know of one incident. How can that one incident make him so insecure about me?
You'll have to sit down with him and have a heart to heart conversation about where the relationship is going. Obviously there's something going wrong here and the only way you'll find out is if you get him to talk. There's no way you can convince him of anything if you don't know what's concerning him.
If he won't talk with you, then you have to think about whether you really want a relationship that has no communication in it. The chances of success are much much lower if you can't communicate honestly with one another.
I wish you the best.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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