we are close friends, she thinks of me as a brother

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Ok i have knowen this girl for about a year now . we are close friends, she thinks of me as a brother . well this is the downer. she thinks she is bi or just confused wich is ok. I just want her to be happy, but i also want to happy.well i have asked her out and she has told me no and we still are still like brother and sister.
she sayes she loves me but if she loves me then why dosnt she go out with me ?

RomanceClass.com Advice
Love can take many forms and when she says she loves you like a brother, that means she thinks of you fondly and she cares about you but is not feeling that *spark* that means "in love". You know what it feels like, you have it for her, but she doesn't share your feelings. This happens, and it sure does hurt when it does.

You need to move on, find someone who has that spark for you that also feels the same way. Keep this one as a best friend but only a friend.

Good luck!

-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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