Am I crazy for wanted this overly jealous guy back in my life
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I love my ex very much but I was never allowed to be in the company of other men. This included friends, exes. I was trying to work things out with my ex; hopeful rekindling. For a week, all I heard was... Things will happen as they happen. Last night he called and asked if I still wanted him to come over. I told him that if he wanted to come over, he was more than welcome. What I failed to tell him was that I had a guy friend over. He called from outside and questioned whose car was in my driveway, then proceeded to scream at me and told me I was nothing but a game player and he never wanted to talk to me again. Am I crazy for wanted this overly jealous guy back in my life. Am I wrong to have had a guy friend over when my ex came over? I was planning on having this friend leave when my ex showed up.
You're trying to earn the trust of your ex back again. You are supposed to be honest and open and forthcoming with him in all areas of your life to prove to him that you're worth going out with.
I agree, he shouldn't have a problem with you having guy friends. But again, you're trying to prove to him that you're not sleeping around and that he's the one for you. To invite him over when you have a guy in your house was just inviting trouble. You should have hustled your friend out the door long before your boyfriend was to show up. In a real world, yes of course you should be able to have a guy friend over when your ex stops by, but this isn't the real world right now, this is you trying to win him back.
I think that he's overreacting to the extreme as well, and it makes me wonder why you would want to be with him. I strongly recommend you look at his strengths and weaknesses and decide if he's who you really want in your life. I personally would recommend against taking him back.
-- from Jenn
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