I still feel so much love for him. He told me that he's moving again, further away
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
This guy and I stopped dating about 2 years ago because he moved to another state for his career. We still talk, usually about once a week, and I still feel so much love for him. He told me that he's moving again, further away. I don't know what to do, I feel like I'm losing him all over again. How do I get over him and move on with my life without him? He's been my best friend and only "true love" for so long, I can't imagine not being with him again.
The only way you're going to solve your dilemma is to go move to his city. Otherwise, you're doomed to pining away for him. You have better ways to live your life, so you'll need to learn how to get over him. The feelings will always be there but over time they'll settle down to fond memories. Occupy yourself with new activities and friends, find ways to keep yourself busy and not thinking of him. Join an online dating community and go out with new guys for the fun and enjoyment of it.
All in all, it's best if you let him go...
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com