I AM OBSESED WITH THIS CASIER AT THE SUPERMARKET,
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
IM GOING CRAZY I CANT LIVE LIKE THIS ANY LONGER, I AM OBSESED WITH THIS CASIER AT THE SUPERMARKET, WE HAVE BEEN EXCHANGING EXITING LOOKS AT EACH OTHER FOR ABOUT 2 YEARS,BUT FOR THE LAST 3 WEEKS I HAVE BEEN FEELING VERY WEIRED, I CAN'T EAT,SLEEP,CONCENTRATE... MY LIFE IS UPSIDE DOWN I NEED HIM, I WANT TO SEE HIM TALK TO HIM, LAST WEEK WE FLIRTED MORE THAN USUAL BUT WITHOUT WORDS, I SHAKE LIKE HELL... I CAN'T EVEN SIGN WHEN I PAY WITH CREDIT CARD, HE NOTICE THAT FOR SURE, I WAS 100% SURE HE WANTED ME TOO, BUT THEN LAST WEEK MY FRIEND HANDED HIM MY TELEPONE NUMBER BUT HE HASN'T CALL ME. NOW I AM OBSESED I HAVE TO GET HIM,NEVER FELT LIKE THIS IN MY ENTIRE LIFE, I FEEL AS IF I NEED SOMEONE HELP, I CAN'T HANDLE THIS FEELING FOR TO LONG, HE IS MY FANTASY, HIS EYES FOLLOW ME EVERYWHERE I GO, I CANT GET HIM OUT OF MY MIND, I STARTED DRINKING ALCOHOL, I KNOW HOW BAD IT IS BUT CAN'T HELP MYSELF, I EVEN CANCEL MOST OF MY OUTINGS,RESUMING THEM JUST TO THE SUPERMARKET. WHY HE HASN'T CALL ME? WHY?COULD IT BE COS I HAVE A KID?BUT THEN HE ALWAYS KNEW,SO WHY DID HE LOOK AT ME LIKE THAT? EATING ME WITH HIS EYES? THAT IS WHY I GAVE HIM GREEN LIGHT GIVING HIM MY NUMBER, IN CASE HE THOUGHT I MAY BE MARRIED...PLEASE HELP ME, I WANT TO GO TO HIS TILL AGAIN,BRAVE,AND SAY SOMETHIN TO HIM, LIKE "I AM STILL WAITING FOR UR CALL" BUT DONT KNOW IF I SOULD,PLEASE LET ME KNOW WANT CAN I DO, I WANT TO STOP FANTASIZING, I NEED THE REAL THING NOW,AND IF I DONT GET IT I WILL GO VERY DEPRESS, WELL I THINK I AM DEPRESS ALREADY, THAT IS WHAT MY FRIEN TELL ME. THANKS
Your friend handed him your phone number, but that doesn't mean that he knows -you- wanted him to call, he might think that it's a scam of some sort. So next time you go through, have a slip of paper with your name and number on it. And when he's done bagging, say, "would you like to go to a movie sometime?" if he says anything positive, then hand him your number and say, "how about Friday?" You need to get reality kicking in instead of the fantasy you're living in. When you do go out with him, you'll find the real guy behind the smock. And then you can decide if you want to continue seeing him or not.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com