why are guys so unbelievabley hard to read.

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
why are guys so unbelievabley hard to read. Me and this guy were friends for like most of the year now. and now that schools ending we started becoming better friends. and he started flirting with me.. and giving me like every possible sign that he likes me even my friends said so. so finally we were talking one night and he's like "nobody likes me.. who do you like" and then i jsut finally decided it was time to tell him, and then hes like "oh alright" and then we didnt say anything then like half an hour later he's like "what are you mad at me cuz i dont like you" .. that really upset me because he was being so jerkish about it.
now he doesnt even talk to me.. when he see's me he just looks away and in class he flirts with my best friend
on spare he doesnt even talk to me, and when we see him in the hall he just talks to my best friend and flrits with her. whats his problem? we were better friends then him and my friend to begin wtih
yet he'll still talk to me on msn, but im really not in the mood to deal with him so i'll brush him off or i wont be very talkative, cuz why should i talk to him if at school he dostn even awknowledge taht im there.. im a human being to with feelings
summers here now and were not even going to talk for 2 months.
what went wrong?

RomanceClass.com Advice
It sounds like he's nervous to be around you because he doesn't know his own feelings. He now knows that you like him and he has to readjust everything in him to figure out if he feels the same, no matter that he told you that night that he doesn't like you that way.

I'd say to take it easy to getting back into a relationship with him. Talk with him on IM, spend time doing little things during the summer like bowling or going to the mall. He was a friend, bring him back into being a friend again.

Good luck!


-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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