i would never cheat on him but i dont know if i should break up or what
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
hi alright theres this guy i have liked for.. 3 years almost and the first like year and a half i liked him i was basically obbsessed and all he did was use me and made me feel really bad a lot but its been almost 2 years sense then and hes so much differnt now and hes apologizzed and i know he means it and i do like him a lot and he likes me and he wants to like start hanging out and getting to know eachother then he said maybe become more and i want that too but i have a boyfriend he lives very far away from me and i only see him 2 weeks in the summer =and i would never cheat on him but i dont know if i should break up or what cause i really want to get to know the guy ive liked for that long but then i dont want to leave my boyfriend and i dotn know if our relationship is even working so i dont want to pass up on the guy i liked what should i do..
Yes, I think you should break up with your long-distance boyfriend. Only seeing each other two weeks a year does not make a relationship. You're using him as a security blanket so that you don't get hurt by a real relationship. You need to step up into a serious dating situation and try that out. Yes, it may end in a blaze of glory, but at least you've tried and learned from it.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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