the first time i went out with her thats when i hurt her

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ok i hurt some one in the past well yeah the first time i went out with her thats when i hurt her and now the second time she broke up with me cuase when i hurt her ok say now she comes runing back to me she ask me out i dont kno if i should say yes or no cuase when we are going out she still might have that he hurt me in the past so i should break up with him again so thats what i am scared of and i still like her and i kno she might come runnign back to me so please give me good advice

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Starting up an old relationship is always a risk for getting hurt all over again. After all, this person knows exactly what will hurt you and may be going out with you again just so that they can cause you pain. Fortunately, that's the exception rather than the rule. So believe in her that she's wanting to date you again because she found good qualities in you that she can't find elsewhere. Take the time to figure out why you broke up with her before and solve them before you get into it again. Otherwise you'll just travel the same path and end up broken up again.

Good luck!


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