I have a crush on this boy and he is going out with my friend

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I have a crush on this boy and he is going out with my friend and he knowes i like him and we (even though he is with my friend)have done some stuff that we shouldnt off and she dosnt know and i like him so much....so what can i do??????????????

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If you're any kind of a friend, you're going to put your feelings on the back shelf until she's broken up with him. She should matter to you more than he will because guys come and go, but girlfriends are the ones who stick with you through thick and thin. Although you like him, you've got to get yourself under control and never let anything happen that shouldn't. Find yourself someone to play with until their relationship is over. Then you can ask her if she's ok with you dating him, but don't go after him before then. She should matter to you more than he should. That's what friendship's about.

Good luck!


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