Sleeping Together Too Soon

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I met this guy and flirted over a couple of months. The problem is we hung out over the last week and ended up sleeping together way too soon. Now I feel really awkward and he hasen't called me (I assume he is feeling the same way). What should I do to fix the situation, if anything. I do like this guy and we have a lot in common, it would be a shame to throw the whole thing away because we made a silly mistake. Advice
Not to worry, this happens ALL the time. It's those hormones in action! He probably does feel uncomfortable. So find a movie you'd both love to see and call him up, and say you're planning on going to it over the weekend, and is he free to go with you? That way you keep it casual, a sort of "I'm going anyway, come along with me?" That way you don't have to talk a lot at first, and then can talk about the movie afterwards. That should break the ice enough to get you back on good terms.

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