She's Not in the Mood

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
My girlfriend has been very stressed lately and she hasn't been in the mood. What ways could i get her in the mood, and approch the whole sex thing in general diffrently. So it's not the same approach every time. please give me some insight on the whole matter. Advice
You're looking at the wrong issue. It's not that she's not interested in sex. It's that other things are *wrong* and therefore she's not interested in sex. You can't just fix the symptom. You have to fix the *problem* otherwise the symptoms are always there.

I have a whole page on dealing with lack of sexual desire -

but in essence you have to help her with her stress! When she's feeling less stressed, she'll feel sexual again. But if you add even MORE stress onto her plate by pushing her for sex, you're just going to make it worse. Even if you think you're trying to push her "gently".

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