She says that she couldn't handle anything going wrong and then her losing me

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I have a really good friend and me and her are both in love with each other. She wants to be with me and i want to be with her. But she dosen't want to mess anything up in the future. She says that she couldn't handle anything going wrong and then her losing me. I thought we should go for it, but she thinks we could be messing up. I don't know what to do or tell her? Advice
Sometimes the only way to find out is to go ahead and do it. Even if things mess up in the future, if you two are committed friends, you will be able to remain friends afterward too. It does happen!

Over time, as you two are together more and more, she will come to feel more comfortable with the decision to go out with you. Then she'll be able to commit to a relationship with you.

Good luck!

-- Jenn

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