i don't want to take the chance of get heart broken AGAIN
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
okay!! i have a boyfriend and we just started goin BACK out!! and the reason we broke up last time was cause he like another girl or what ever!! and now he tells me how much he loves me and how much he missed me while we was broke up and stuff and knowing me i took him back!! but the only reason i took him back is cause i love him and he was like my first kiss and my first love!! and even though i am not his first kiss he says that i was his first love!! but i am so freaking scared to get hurt once agian by the same boy!! so what do i do?¿ i really love this boy!! but i don't want to take the chance of get heart broken AGAIN!! so please help me what do you think that i should do?¿
Every relationship is one step away from breaking up, so you'll always be faced with the chance of being very hurt by the one that you love. It just goes with the territory, particularly in your teenage years because it's such a time of fluctuations.
First in any relationship is trust. You need to trust what he says is true, and he needs to be able to trust you as well. When you love each other, you will naturally stick together. So go ahead and give it another shot. You'll do better this time around, since you have the experience to look back on.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com