I found out that I like my Biology teacher
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I am having hard time with my feelings right now. I have been married for almost 5 years, and always being loyal to my husband. But now I form two months ago I found out that I like my Biology teacher, and he likes me to. I noticed this feelings at same time I found my husband looking at pornography in internet and masturbating himself, so since them my feelings to my teacher have being growing. I don't know what to do because I like this person who is very nice to me, but I don't want to cheat on my husband or leave him.
What should I do?
If you don't want to cheat on your husband or leave him, then you need to nip this attraction to your bio teacher quickly, or it will grow out of hand and become a serious problem.
You mention in the same breath that your husband is looking up porn and masturbating. It sounds to me like you're trying to justify your bio teacher crush by saying that your husband's doing questionable things too. But it isn't the same thing at all. If your husband's behavior is bothering you, then you need to talk with him openly about it and say why it bothers you and discuss ways for you both to feel more comfortable about things. It may take an objective third party, a counsellor, to walk you through this so you both come out feeling happy.
But dating your bio teacher's not the way to solve any issues.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com