does he like me. was he mad at me for some reason.
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I recently went on a camping trip.therewas a guy that was there and he is a son of my moms friend.well at the camping trip he would histle at me and throw me in the pool.we also had water fights and stuff like that. well i was hanging withmy friend and he was in his tent and me andmy cousins were playing man hunt and meand my freind were hiding together behind his tent.well he was begging for me to go in there with him.he kept begging and begging and begging.so finaly we did.well we just sat there and looked at eachother.after about ten minutes my friend got tired and went to bed and there we were.i was sitting there and he kept telling me to lay down.i kept saying no but after a while i did.we didnt really do anything except lay there and he kept trying to kiss me but i wouldnt let him.so then i was like after about 30 minutes really tired and wanted to go to my tent but every time i would try he would hold me in there and begged me not to go.i told him that the next night i would come back so anyways after a while i was like i really need to go ad he was like well cani have a kiss and i said no.so i left and the next night rolled around and he went to bed.so i tried to wake him up but i couldnt so i just went to bed.the next day he kept looking at me but he was doing thatall weekend but that day was different because he didnt talk to me and he didnt play with me in the pool eitherso i was like whatever. so i have a few questions does he like me. was he mad at me for some reason. if he was what was he mad about.please help
It sounds to me like yes he liked you, and that you were really great at pushing off his advances. That's a hard thing to do when you're getting pressured by a guy that you like. Good for you! And it sounds like he thinks that you don't like him, since you pushed him away and guys can be dorks sometimes when it comes to things like this. He may think that if you don't kiss him then you don't like him. He may not think that just because you like him doesn't mean that you'll put out for him.
If you do like him, then get together with him as a friend and do things in public places (dinners / movies / bowling) and then progress to watching TV or something like that.
If you don't like him, then you did exactly the right thing and you should be proud of yourself.
Heck, no matter whether you like him or not, you should be proud of yourself!
-- from Marc
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com