I cant stop thinkin the worst about everything.

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I cant stop thinkin the worst about everything.i think everyone will let me down and very very scared of being lonely especially with girlfriend.i always have to ask tons of questions and be reassured how she feels about me and what our future holds.We have been on a break and started to try to mend the pieces by seeing each other now and again.she is with her friends loads and im scared she may turn round and say that she enjoys them more than being with me.i trust her totally but cant stop askin if she behaves when she is out drinking.and may question her about it days later.i hate myself for doing it but cant get these thoughts out of my mind.love her loads and dont want to ruin it if we get back.whats wrong with me and any tips on stopping thinkin the worst.thanks

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I strongly suggest that you get counselling to work out the issues with depression and anxiety. I don't think that it's anything your girlfriend has done or will do, I think it stems from a lack of self-esteem on your part and with some good counselling, you'll be back on your feet and feeling great.

Good luck!

-- from Marc
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