well I like these two girls
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
well I like these two girls and they both mean a lot to me but im getting closer to this one girl but i dont know what to do about the other one cause i dont want to see her hurt. so how do I make it all good with out hurting someone and keeping her as a friend. I really dont know what to do and if you understand what im saying please help me out a little bit. also the girl that im getting closer i feel scared of messing up somthing and loosing what we have i want to ask her out but i dont know what to do and i dont know how i would feel around her if i was rejected. they both mean a lot to me im so confused
You're playing with both of their hearts. You need to figure out which one you want and then make it clear to both of them where you stand. Otherwise you're just inviting heartache for all three of you.
Now you say you already feel closer to one than the other. That is great! Develop that relationship more by hanging out more, doing things together, enjoy each other's company more. And it will grow from there. Don't worry about being rejected, it seems like she likes you already.
There are dozens of tips on the site that go into how to ask someone on a date and how to deal with girls you like.
-- from Marc
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com