my girl friend says she wants some space
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Out of no where my girl friend says she wants some space and would like to start seeing whats out there. we talked for a while now she wishes she never said that and she didnt know what she was satying and that she loves me. I feel wired around her now because i know she wanted to drop me, but now she wants to be with me....i dont think this is really a question...but can you look at this and mabey see what i should do?? should i let her have her"freedom"? or should i keep it going?..i do love her alot and i just want her to be happy even if it mea me not being happy...
Don't panic over a one-time statement. Every relationship goes through its ups and downs, ins and outs. She may just have been feeling a little anxious about the closeness that you two have, and she may have been feeling a little claustrophobic. Also, after a while when things are cozy, then there's the grass is greener on the other side thought, that maybe something else would be more exciting, more sparkly, whatever. But then she thought about it some more and realized that she's happiest with you. So take it as a really good thing that she decided that the other side is not what she wants after all. She could have broken up with you and then regretted it for the rest of her life.
You have a good thing going. Just keep it going.
-- from Marc
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com