I am afraid that he is thinking about her
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have been with my boyfriend for over three years. His brother just got a new girlfriend and she is really nice looking. He keeps telling me how hot she is and the other day I caught him on the phone with someone telling whoever it was how bad he wanted to f*** her!
Now every time we have sex I am afraid that he is thinking about her and not me. What should I do?
I can understand your problem. Unfortunately, you either have to put your faith and trust in him or you have to break up with him. Try the faith and trust thing first. Believe in him that he's yours, after all, he's been with you three years now, that says something. And just because he finds her attractive doesn't mean he's going to step out on you and go with his brother's girlfriend. He'd be betraying far too many people.
As for the thinking of her while having sex with you, you're only going to warp your experiences with no proof and no way to prove otherwise. Just enjoy in the lovemaking and trust that he's making love to you and no one else. If he moans her name, though, stab a knife through his back. (ok, just kidding!)
-- from Marc
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com