the only thing i could think about is revenge
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
me and my girlfrind have juz gotten back together for the third time and juz a couple of days ago i found out she cheated on me i got so mad so the only thing i could think about is revenge cuz it was my first time getting cheated on so i cheated on her with her best friend now i lost her her love and trust but we still talk on the phone and she tells me she has feelings for me and why i had done that and all i could tell her is im sorry and i love her but i know it dont mean nutting to her but all i could do now is hope and pray to get her back i juz want her trust back cuz i really love her and i was thinking she was the one that i would be with all my life and i still want that but i need to gain her trust back
I think that you should sit down and seriously confront this issue. You both cheated, so if you can come to terms with it that the scales are balanced, then you can start a new life without the baggage from the past. You need to forgive each other and yourselves. There is a lot of pain that needs to be soothed.
I suggest that you find a counsellor or impartial advisor either through school or your church to talk with you both and settle this. You can overcome the problem if you really try, but both people have to want to try.
-- from Marc
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com