she is cheating on me with her neighboor and she also likes this guy she met online
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Hey, well ive been going out with this girl I really like for about 5 months and she really likes me alot as I here from her and all of her friends. Although recently, 2 people that know her, one is my cousin and one is one of her ex boyfriends said to me that she is cheating on me with her neighboor and she also likes this guy she met online. The guy she met online is her friend's cousin. Same friend that is going out with my girlfriend's ex. Well from the begining I knew that this guy down the block was no good. My cousin told me that when she hangs out wit my girlfriend, my girlfriend always says stuff that the guy down the block is hot, n she likes him. But also people told me that my cousin told me that to break us up because she wants my girlfriend to go out with my cousin's firend. My girlfriend has cheated on me in the past but I told her that if she ever cheated on me again or hung out with the guy down the block ever again I would break up with her and she said she would never cheat on me again or hang out with her neighboor. I don't know if she is telling me the truth, I don't know who to trust and believe, and I just don't know what to do right now. What should I do?
Relationships are all about trust. Believing in the other person when they tell us stuff. You have to believe your girlfriend unless she gives you concrete reasons to think otherwise. Tell her that you're hearing rumors but that you'll believe what she says. It will put her on her guard and if she is cheating, then it'll get her to at least be more discreet (sorry!). But it will also remind her that you are the one who truly cares about her and that the others are just irresponsible flings.
I wish you the best!
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com