She Never Showed Up at the date

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Ive been talking to a girl online for nearly two months she lives in my area but i asked her to see a movie with me and she agreed on 9:30

i waited at the theatre untill 10:00 she never showed... what do you think i should do im really dissapointed ...

by the way we both know people who know us so she knows im not some freakin weirdo. Advice
It's never wise to leap to conclusions. Maybe her car broke down, maybe she got really sick? Of course you should always share cell phone numbers before hand so you can know what is going on. It is simple decency that she should have called and let you know, so you did not stand out there all night waiting for her.

Even if she got cold feet, which happens, she should have called. If she couldn't even call you to say "I can't make it", then I would really hold off on dating her. Dating is about respecting each others' feelings. If she deliberately let you stand there all night because she didn't want to talk to you, that is pretty cruel and selfish.

But again, make sure that's what happened. Maybe something else interfered and it wasn't her fault.

-- Lisa

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