I later found out she already had a boyfriend
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
My question is there is this girl I like a lot and we are good friends but I asked her out but I later found out she already had a boyfriend which she still has but he will graduate teo years ahead of us.I still like her even though I know she has a boyfriend and every once in a while I will see her staring at me and then turn around nervously.So I wanted to ask is it wrong for me to still like her even though she has a boyfriend and if not my friend pointed out that since he will be gone in two years I should wait and try again then so my other question is do you think I should wait?
It's not wrong for you to like this girl, but it is wrong for you to go out with her while she's attached. If you were to start dating her, even if she dumped the guy later, then would you want someone who will date behind your back? What if she did it to you?
You should sit back and then if/when she breaks up, then go after her. But in the meantime, find people to enjoy and find girls who are free to date. That way, your mind will be off her and you'll be having fun.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com