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Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
i need help. me and my girlfriend have been going out for 9 months and about a month ago shes been talking to this guy who she says that hes her best freind. i got really paraniod and she tells me that she loves me nad she wouldnt do that to me. like even the first time i saw her talk to him online i talked to her about it and she told him that mike thinks something is going on between us. The guy was like why does he think that? Well a couple of weeks went by and i found out that he was thinking about her becuase i did some detective work. in the end i found out it was his friend. Just recenlty we r taking a break because she says im to overprotected and that we fight alot. She tells me she still loves me and she loves me to much to lose me . Well she called that guy da other while we were talking in my house and i go 2 da room and all i hear her telling him is that she wants him to help me and that it hurts her when she sees me cry. So the guy talks to me online and hes like stay postive and u guys will be fine. I asked him if he thinks she loves me and he like yea i know she does. i just need help i think there is something going on between them but then again im not to sure HELP!!!! Advice
Stop being over-protective. Your girlfriend has said repeatedly that she hasn't done anything. If you value your relationship, then you will let go of this jealousy and trust in your girlfriend. If you don't do this, then she will leave because she will be so unhappy that she will have no choice. Relationships are all about trust and honoring the other person. You aren't doing this. Instead, you are being suspicious, distrustful, and angry.

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