i really don't want to lose his friendship
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
i am 16 years old i still have feelings for my ex boyfriend we went out for 4 months and we had talked for like 8 months before going out his friends keep telling me he still cares for me. he get jealous if i give a guy a ride home. but he took this girl to prom because i school don
t let you take sophmores to prom so now everyone is saying he likes this girl and the girl is hanging with him at lunch he had told someone on the day of prom he wanted to take me but i was a sophmore. i told him i would still liked to be friends with him but he said at this time he thinks it would be better if we were not friends. me & his sister are real good friends and do stuff together all the time. i need some advice on what to do i really don't want to lose his friendship we were best friends until we went out.
With any breakup, there's always the tough question of how to continue the friendship. Usually, the best way is to let the relationship cool off from the heat of the dating to a more sedate level. Then after a while you can build up the friendship again. Give it time and you'll see that things will come around again.
-- from Marc
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com