Romantic Forums! Get the answers you seek quickly and easily! If you can't find what you need
here amongst our tens of thousands of tips and questions, be sure to Post in our Romantic Forum!
We've got over 9,800 members ready to give you a hand!
A Love Quote
Love is a great master. It teaches us to be what we never were. --Molière

what I used to feel has faded

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
We've been together for 1.5yrs, and even though we did break up once we've managed to pull through. The thing is what I used to feel has faded, that 'connection' is gone. When I'm with him I feel hollow inside. I'm not sure if it's just a phase, perhaps my feelings for him will return? We enjoy spending time together, I appreciate his company but nowadays I'm slightly uncomfortable when he shows physical affection. Will my feelings for him return? I can't figure out why they've faded. We've spoken about it, and we've agreed to work it out but I'm in doubt as to whether I should even bother. What if it never comes back anyway?

RomanceClass.com Advice
Everyone's feelings shift and change during a relationship, and it seems like you're hit with it now. The loss of passion in a relationship is very common, and horrible to go through. One suggestion I have to fall back in love is to go do those things you did when you first met, whether it's going backpacking, out for a picnic, to a movie, or necking in the car. Look at him again as you did when you first started. Relive the reasons why you wanted to go out with him in the first place. If you can stir those coals into a flame, then you're all set.

The thing you have to ask yourself is "is this enough?". If you continue to lack these feelings, are you comfortable enough in the relationship that you can live with it or do you feel those feelings are so key to a relationship that you need to move on? Those are questions only you can answer.

Good luck!

-- from Marc
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

Add RomanceClass  to Twitter Add RomanceClass  to Facebook Add RomanceClass  to MySpace Add RomanceClass  to Del.icio.us Digg RomanceClass+ Add RomanceClass  to Yahoo My Web Add RomanceClass  to Google Bookmarks Add RomanceClass  to Stumbleupon Add RomanceClass  to Reddit

Speak Your Mind - Share your Thoughts on this Question!

All Advice in the category - General Dating

Browse our Answer Database
- Browse Answers by Question Category
- Browse Answers by Age Group
- Browse Answers by Date of Response

Please read through the advice on this site before you Submit your Own Question! We have thousands of pages of valuable advice that can immediately help you with your situation.

Sparkly Irridescent Glitz Gel

Going to a party or special event? What to feel special no matter what you're doing? Roll on some glitz! Perfect for adding a special bit of sparkle to your day or evening.

Buy Glitz Gel at EclecticLady.com

Bookmark this site so you can reference it any time you need romantic / relationship info in the future!

Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Twitter Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Facebook Add Romance+Class+Website+ to MySpace Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Del.icio.us Digg Romance+Class+Website+ Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Yahoo My Web Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Google Bookmarks Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Stumbleupon Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Reddit


Follow Me on Pinterest

Romantic Tshirts, Bags, Mugs and More!

Love is Patient
Love is Patient ...
Deeply Loved
Deeply Loved ...
Random Kindness
Random Kindness ...

These are just a small selection - Visit the RomanceClass Shop!

Join This Newsletter!

RomanceClass on Facebook

Join This Newsletter!

Past Issues

| About RomanceClass | Advertising | Privacy Policy | Submit a Suggestion |
All content copyright © 2013 Minerva WebWorks LLC. All rights reserved.

this site is for amusement only - professional advice is not being rendered

origami wedding favors